Ready to Wed? 10 Signs You Should Marry Him

1. You share similar life values

While you don’t have to be exact carbon copies of one another, it is important that you share similar life views? Do you both want children? What are his life plans? Are they similar to yours? He might be the most amazing boyfriend in the world, but ultimately, if you don’t have the similar views on life, it will never last. You need to be on the same page about your life visions and goals. Make sure you have talked these things over with him in depth before you even consider marriage!

2. You feel completely at ease when you are with him

Of course in the beginning of a relationship we are all on our best behavior. However, once things get serious, you start to let your guard down. He has gotten to know the real you and he loves and accepts you the way you are. Of course, he doesn’t try to change you; and he even loves your little quirks. And the same goes for him. You love everything about him. Sure, neither one of you is perfect, but who is? The important signs you should marry him completely yourself around him – you accept each other at face value.

3. He pays attention when you speak

Sure he listens when you talk, but does he remember what you’ve said? How well does he really know you?  Can he pick up on your mood from your body language? O, may be he can read between the lines? If you find that you don’t’ constantly have to repeat things or explain yourself, then you know he’s totally in to you!

4. He talks about the future

If he starts making future plans then it’s a good sign that he’s thinking about marriage. And we’re just not talking about making plans to go to the movies next weekend. If he talks in terms of “next year” or holiday plans with both of your families, then it’s obvious that he is considering you in his long term plans.

5. He makes you a priority

Of course, neither one of you should completely cut out your family or friends as you grow closer, but you need to know that you are a priority in his life. Oh, does he set aside time for just the two of you? Does he make sacrifices to show you that you are an important part of his life? If he doesn’t make you a priority now, he certainly won’t do so in the future. You need to know that you are an integral part of his life. As well, you need to do the same for him.

6. You are close with his family and friends

Have you met his parents? What about his closest friends? If he has taken the time to introduce you to his peer group as well as his immediate family, that’s a sure sign that you are a potential marriage candidate. Men do not bring home women if they are not serious about them. If you have met the parents and spent a considerable amount of time with them, it’s a sure fire sign that he is thinking about marriage!

7. You aren’t afraid to speak your mind

The two of you can have a heated debate without it ending in a screaming match. Not to say that you’ll never disagree, but if you are afraid to disagree with him or speak your mind, he certainly isn’t your life partner. A man who values your opinion is worth keeping around!

8. He makes you feel safe

Sometimes you just know that he’s the one. You can feel it in your gut. He makes you feel safe and secure. He gives you an overwhelming sense of peace and contentment. Always listen to your gut – it is right signs you should marry him!

9. He is emotionally stable

Not to say that he can’t have a fun-loving, humorous side! However, you want to make sure that he is emotionally mature and stable. You don’t want to marry a man with a temper. Make sure that he keeps his emotions in check and knows how to handle problems like a mature adult.